“How Do You Do All You Do and Not Get Stressed Out

One of the things I want to do for you as on of my
members is give you a vantage point not talked about
by everyone – in other words not just the same old
same old…

Just today I was talking with one of my Private Client Group
Members and he said:

“How Do You Do All You Do and Not Get Stressed Out?”

First, some people think that they always have to be
stressed out and appear that they are – especially to
those around them – why? My theory is it makes others
think that they are really super busy or maybe even
super important.

Also, many people think that they may get more
done if they act like they are stressed out.

We all know that being stressed out is not the best
thing for you. Don’t get me wrong, there ARE times
to be stressed out and you cannot be too
passive sometimes BUT to be totally stressed out
to the point of it being a handicap to your business
and your health is not good. Especially long
term.

So what is the secret?

Its not acupuncture.

Its not meditation.

Its not Booze.

Its simple really. I Expect there to be problems, delays and things that
drive you nuts. It is bound to happen. Bottom line
is the more projects you are involved in the more
problems and hassles you will have.

You see where people get into trouble is when they
expect perfection and are surprised when they
encounter a problem. This really stresses them out.

“What…a problem?” “What another problem??”

If there is one thing I can be sure of my friend that
you will have surprises and problems with your
real estate deals. Instead of letting these
stress you out by being surprised by them –

Expect them and then deal with them.

Next email I will talk about that…dealing with them..

Later..